Wednesday, May 25, 2005

GREAT NEWS!!!

Just got off the phone with the doctor, and my test results are back from the echo/stress test; the vampire’s blood test results came back, too.

My cholesterol is down to well within normal levels, my triglycerides were cut in half—still borderline high, but a great improvement from the last tests (if the numbers mean anything to you, triglycerides came down from 725 to 320). My blood glucose levels are well within normal (a really scary thing for me, since both my parents have/had diabetes). He said everything looks great!! YIPPEE!!

The stress/echo came back with glowing reports, too. No evidence of blocked arteries, no evidence of heart damage (whew!), no evidence of arrhythmia (well, until about an hour after the test, my heart was doing flip-flops, but then there was no one to see it at that time, was there).

What happened to me in France was a “Super Ventricular Tachycardia” or SVT. Not a heart attack(!) but a heart “episode.”

And to kind of answer the other questions, about gall bladder, hernias, or stress, the answer is “No.” Not from any of these three. It was just some kind of pacemaker anomaly that may never happen again. Made me wonder if I’d be like my uncle whose pacemaker got replace when he was in his 70’s. I have a few years to wait for that, tho.

How about that to put a person in a good mood?!

Thanks to everyone for their kind thoughts and encouragement.

Wednesday Meme--Weird Ones

1. Besides candy what else would be good to put in a pinata?
Money--dollar bills so the pinata wouldn't be too heavy to lift. For adults, little plastic "airplane" sized bottles of liquor, but then you wouldn't be able to hang the pinata too far off the ground, either. Keys to a car--only one would work and the winner would get the car.

2. If there was a product called Jellophane what would it do? What would be its pluses and minuses? It would be a stretchable gelatin that covers fruit, keeping it fresh in the fridge for a few extra days. You could wrap it around personal-sized fruit salads, tying it with an edible ribbon, eliminating the need for plastic wrapping and reducing the amount of trash, because you could carry it and eat the whole package--like a fruit-salad wrap.

3. There is a saying that 'Hope springs eternal. What does charity spring? Continuity--of life. I never understood the "hope springs eternal" saying, anyway.

4. What is the best thing to come from Asia. How about Europe? now what about North America, South America, Australia, and Africa. All of Asia?? That's quite a lot of choices. Maybe technology through mass production. Europe--food. North America--Innovation; competition. South America--color, bright, festive color, and food. Austrailia--penguins. Africa--again, so much to choose, but I think the most important thing from Africa is that this continent's people made the world aware of the need for a conscience in interactions. The need for charity, for one thing. These are the things that came off the top of my head. Not a great deep thinker, am I.

5. Why do kids always seem to get scrapes on their knees, but not on their backs? Because kids fall a lot--they fall forward, not always backward, and their knees and hands are the first to make contact with the surface below. When they fall backward, their heads or derrieres are the first to make contact, not their backs.

Push me, Pull me!

Please, oh, please push me, pull me to do the things on my list today!! I need to struggle to get it all done or fall very, very behind in the birthday party planning!

For two nights, I have not slept well. I slept, but awoke several times during the night. It wasn't that I wasn't comfortable in bed or anything; I just kept waking.

So today, my mind and body in unison do not want to do all those things I had put in the Party Planning Timeline. I want them done today because I don't want them hanging around tomorrow, and besides, I think me hoosband wasn't too happy to find the house in such nightmarish condition last night when he returned home from work. He was sweet about it, though, realizing that we got company just as I was to embark on the dinner cooking journey, and the 10 minute house rescue.

Please say some magic words to me to get it all done!! (dh: all I need from you is an, "I love you, anyway, honey.")

Tuesday, May 24, 2005

4!!!!

Four! My littlest girl made it to four years old today.

Happy Birthday, Emily!

We love you a bunch (and like you, too)!

Monday, May 23, 2005

A Heartfelt Thank You to My Husband

Yesterday, my plans included rushing home to get the house “pretty” so you’d return to a peaceful, inviting home. My plans did not include a bout of heat stroke. Then you did the laundry, made dinner for the girls, me, and my father, and then did the dishes, ran Em’s bath, and generally gave me time to recuperate.

Thank you from the bottom of my weak heart for being such a great man. You may be made very happy come Father’s Day. I just want you to know that I do so very much appreciate you. Love, me


Planning for a 4-year-0ld’s Birthday Party

What a schedule I have planned for myself this week—finishing the laundry early, bringing furniture back into the house (carpets got cleaned last Friday), going through and filing paperwork, mopping floors, cleaning the play room and the girls’ bedroom, ie., making the house sparkle for the friends coming to destroy the house on Sunday for Em’s 4th B’day Party. Plus all the usual stuff—tumbling, gymnastics, piano, Brownies, and oh yea, making snack for Em’s preschool tomorrow because it’s her birthday tomorrow. Plus I need to order the cake (an ice cream cake). I just finished reserving the bounce house and the bubble performer. Wanna come? At least the house will be clean for a few days.

Last Weekend—

We managed to survive the weekend! YAY! What a weekend it was, too. I thought I had written about the plans, but I guess I didn’t. Thursday night, we attended Sarah’s Open House Night. What talented second graders we have! I never had that much fun in second grade! I want a do-over!!

Friday night we attended Em’s open house—a preschool open house is a great event. Ice Cream, a cake walk or two or three, playing on the swings and slides, and seeing all the creativity the kids (and especially the teachers) have. We also got the added benefit of being eaten alive by mosquitoes. Nice.

After the open house, I went to The Babysitter’s house to help her with her Spanish project. This project was quite involved; she had to throw a dinner party, serving entirely Spanish food. She had found recipes on the web that were Spanish, not like our local Mexican recipes (I had suggested having Taco Bell cater, but that idea got kicked in the head early).

She had asked for my help, and I had been helping all week but now crunch time was here and we needed to do some extra things. Friday I cooked and planned with her until about 12:30am Saturday. Saturday at noon, I went back to help them finish cooking.

The menu (in English) for “An Evening in Spain”:

Tapas: paprika chicken (chicken thighs sautéed in paprika, garlic and oil, apricot bites (halved apricots with a cream cheese/pistachio mixture in the middles)

Salad: Tomato Basil and Spanish Farmer’s cheese

Main Course: Chicken and Saffron Rice (in Spanish it sounded much more exotic, and tasted great, too), with “Real Spanish Bread”—I made that!

Dessert: Leche Flan, and Spanish cookies

Beverages Included Sunset Sangria (Thank you Rachel Ray!), Fruity non-alcoholic Sangria, and lemonade.

The kids (The Babysitter and her Boyfriend) worked hard, decorated beautifully, cooked terrifically, and hosted graciously. Everyone was very pleased and very proud of our teens. They certainly deserve top grades.

Sunday, bright and early, we got up for our Girl Scouts Road Rally. It was great fun, and at each stopping point, we played some kind of games to get extra points. The stopping points were at parks and schools, and at the first stop, we sack-raced, 3-legged raced, played leap-frog, and wheelbarrow raced. I participated with Sarah in the sack, leap-frog and wheelbarrow races. Dad, my hero, did the 3-legged race. We placed last in all of the events. I fell during the sack race, twisted my knee, but didn’t notice it until later in the evening. We had a great time. The last stop took us to the community’s big park, where a picnic lunch and crafts waited for us.

My home kept calling me, and the dog was hungry, thirsty, and getting in the way, so I walked home with him. I think it may have been a mistake, because by the time I got home and had the clothes sorted, I was ill. My head felt like jelly—thick and slow, my chest felt weighted and nauseaus, my bones and joints all hurt. So just as Scott and the girls returned home, I laid down on my sheetless bed and slept. Then I slept some more. The next thing I knew, Scott had gone to get Poppy for dinner, and made cheeseburgers that normally I love. I got out of bed, sat at the table and stared at the burger for awhile. It just looked wrong. I could not force myself to eat it. So I went back to bed. I felt a lot better by 8:00 or so, and gave Em her bath, got the girls to bed, and ate some yogurt. Instant Messaged with my very good friend Ms. Real Estate Magnate, who thinks my chest stuff is more likely stress than gall bladder or even hernia troubles. After re-reading the above two paragraphs, I think maybe I ought to agree. However, I have no time to be affected by stress attacks. Next post: this weeks plans for Em’s 4th birthday party.

The day after…

Within 24 hours of the surgery, Sarah complained that her right ear hurt, especially when she yawned or burped. Monday morning, we visited the ENT, and she already has an ear infection! Yikes. I certainly hope this is not prophetic of her future. Will we have to have new tubes inserted again??

Thursday, May 19, 2005

Survey

O.K., if you've read my blog, you've seen what my symptoms are. I'm getting some opinions about my health, and I'd like to ask you, my 6 readers, if you think they might be right and the docs may not be looking in the right area to fix me.

Symptoms...

nausea, chest pain, elevated heart rate, weakness in muscles, feeling of heaviness in my chest, shortness of breath, more gas than ever before (excuse this detail, please).

So,

How many of you agree with five people who have already told me that I ought to have the docs check into gall bladder dysfunction?

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Last Night's Dinner & Cardiac Stress Test

This morning, I go to the vampire's lab so they can suck, er, test some more of my blood. Then I'll go across the street to visit the cardiologist for a "stress/echo" test. I guess I'll be walking/running on a treadmill or something with patches all over me. It ought to be interesting.

Haven't felt well all morning, maybe it's the stress test causing some extra stress.

However, last night, I shared a beautiful dinnertime with two of my closest friends, Ms. Social Worker, and Ms. Teacher. They are both working on their Master's degrees, have so much talent. I know they will be such a benefit to the human race as professionals (partly because the world is such a greatly better place because they are here already).

Anyway, we went to the Cheesecake Factory, and whaddya know? We did not have any cheesecake! I was nearly a good girl, and ate salad for dinner, and it was very yummy. But I was only nearly a good girl, because I drank a couple of FACTORY PEACH BELLINIs (click on the "from our Bar" button)

They had the Warm Apple Crisp (click on "desserts" button) for dessert, and I became a bad girl again and ordered a hot fudge sundae (but it was kind of a good girl thing since I didn't order the way-too-rich-cheesecake-no-matter-what-flavor I ordered).

We talked and laughed...we shared good news and bad, and it was truly a great evening. Success for me, the old mom of the trio, since getting home at 11:30 on a week night and being locked out of the house symbolized such a "youthfully" successful night! Had to wake "dad" to let me in to the house! (grin, grin)

Well gotta go and fill out the forms, give my blood, and walk the walk. Have a great day!

Wednesday, May 18, 2005

Wednesday Meme

Are you more... #40
Are you more...

01) Trusting of your managers/supervisors/executives or wary of your managers/supervisors/executives?
wary

02) The "it'll be fine without a belt" type or the "belt and suspenders, just in case" type?
no belt

03) One who leaves the door unlocked or one who always locks the door?
I don't know if I ought to answer this one...mostly I forget to lock it.

04) Popeye or Bluto?
Popeye (or more like Wimpy), and it's Brutus, not Bluto.

05) One who needs to have magical thinking or one who needs to have the truth, no matter what it turns out to be? I like magical thinking.

06) A Paris Hilton lover or a Paris Hilton hater? A Paris Hilton indifferent.

07) Into walls that are painted or into walls that are wallpapered? PAINTED.

08) Hardwood floors (for the beauty) or tile/vinyl floors (for the practicality)? Hardwood.

09) Looking forward to Star Wars III: Revenge of the Sith or couldn't care less about it and why all the hype, you geeks? Excitedly anticipating the end of the series.

10) American Idol is the best thing on television or American Idol is just another crappy reality television show? Crappy, crappy, crappy.

taken from "scratchingtheitch.com" by way of The memes list.

They have Money, but they can't Spell!

Received from random spammer this morning:

"our bank has approovbed your mrtgagce request. You can ref
inance, buy a new house or maybe get some ca s h.
Do not worry about bad credzit: we got you covered."

Would you borrow money from these people??

Monday, May 16, 2005

The Weekend

Friday, Sarah's ear tubes were surgically removed--short successful
surgery, for which we waited 31/2 hours to get performed.

We made it home just in time to get a quick snack--Sarah had not eaten
since Thursday night--she'd had 2 bites of an English Muffin (crumpet, sort
of, for non-US people), and had not realized she'd get quite so
hungry. That was at 8:am, and by the time 2:pm came when surgery was
about to start, she was literally weak with hunger. She's so thin to start, she doesn't have much of a reserve.

So, immediately after leaving the hospital, she began begging for her
favorite restaurant, <http://www.lucillesbbq.com/>Lucille's. What could I
do--I did exactly as she requested: ordered two chicken dinners to go. She
was even allowed to begin eating it in the car.

When we finished eating, mmm, babybacks!!, we got ready and went to our
Girl Scout event...the Leader/Daughter Freaky Friday dinner, where I was to
be the photog. By this time I had a roaring migraine. I'm going to have to
get some of that nose spray they've been talking about.

But we did it; I photographed 25 pairs plus some quads and triples in
portrait, and had a great time. I even got some dinner out of it.

I also stopped at the local grocery bakery, and bought a couple of cakes
for the event...the planners were allowed no budget from Council, and had
to feed 70 people on $15/plate. Cookies were planned for dessert, but I
couldn't have that. So, I brought cake.

We were done by
9:00, and Sarah and I dropped, exhausted into bed, and
didn't get up until nearly 9:am Saturday. We felt great --Sarah's ears didn’t
hurt at all!

Saturday included Sarah’s planned tea in order to get her “Her Story” try-it
patch for Brownies. She did a terrific job, reading a poem she wrote, and then reading out of a book entitled She. (Thank you Ms. Northwest!). Then Saturday we entertained my dad (a whole other story), and today, we rested nearly all day.

That's my story...Have a Happy Monday tomorrow.

Sunday, May 15, 2005

Sunday Late Night Meme

"A diplomat is a man who always remembers a woman's birthday but never remembers her age." -Robert Frost 1) What is your birthday, what time were you born, what astrological sign are you, and what city and state were you born in?
April 13, 2:12 am, Aries, San Gabriel, California

2) Are there any famous events or famous people that share your special day?
Thomas Jefferson, Al Green, Samuel Becket, Ray Charles, Dan Gurney, Catherine de Medici, Queen of Spain, daughter of Henry II

3) What did you do to celebrate your last birthday?
Went to Disneyland--in Paris!!

4) What is your best birthday celebration that you can remember?
The first to come to mind is when 40 or so of my dearest friends met in San Francisco to surprise me for my 40th birthday. Another is the birthday when my 3-1/2 year old Sarah announced she would from that date on use only the potty, and she kept her promise!

5) What is the best birthday present you have ever received?

See #4, above

Taken from "The Memes List"

Friday, May 13, 2005

Sarah's Surgery

Today, we take Sarah to hospital for outpatient surgery, the removal of her ear tubes. I'm a little resistant to the idea, but she so badly wants to swim and bathe without ear plugs.

I'm resistant because the doc fears that if Sarah continues to have nasal/sinus problems, they will easily turn into more ear infections if we remove the tubes. However, even with these reservations, the doc is willing to do the surgery, so I guess I ought to be willing too.

I hope I don't have the same reaction I did when she had her tonsils out. I cried and cried when she fell asleep in my arms after the anesthesia was administered. It was sure an ugly feeling. I hope I can keep myself calm today, especially since Scott won't be with me today, till later this afternoon.

Now, what am I to do with Emily while I'm in the OR with Sarah for those few minutes when she goes to sleep. Babysitters are all still at school; my neighbor is gone. I guess I'll just take Em with us and hope for the best.

I'll update all later.

My Own Personal Meme

A reader asked me to publish my book list and turn it into a meme. Here I am. But this book list of mine is the summer book list, or what I plan to read during this coming summer. So, here is my list (of course in no particular order):

Flowers for Algernon,
Stars Dispose (recommended by mutual friend Casey)
Time Traveller's Wife
Walden (Henry David Thoreau)
Celebrate Yourself (a hard read, assigned by a doctor friend of mine)
The Joy Diet (another self help--a gift)
Reason for Hope (Jane Gudall)
The man who mistook his wife for a hat (one of Scott's books)
The Dancing Wu Li Masters (a recommendation from Scott--so intellectual, it takes a month for me to read a paragraph)
Animal Dreams (Barbara Kingsolver)
Life of Pi
Fast Food Nation
The Book Club

Another friend just recommended Guns, Germs, and Steel: The Fates of Human Societies which ought to be really very interesting--she said she had to read each paragraph about three times, think about it and then she got it. It's about cultures and how some have progressed and embraced technology, while others are still hunter/gatherers, even to our day.

Books to read/finish this month:

Flowers for Algernon
The Stars Dispose

What books will you read this summer?

Thursday, May 12, 2005

The Twelfth of May

Today would have been my parents' 48th wedding anniversary. Except two years ago yesterday we buried my mother. Today I visited my mother's grave. By myself. I didn't want distrations from my children to either enhance or detract from my visit.

I found the headstone, the pretty one with a beach and palm trees engraved onto it, and thought about talking to my mom. Then I wondered why people visit graves.

Pragmatically, if the people don't believe in the afterlife, then they are visiting the decomposing remains of their loved one. That wouldn't be a pleasant thought. Does it just emotionally help a person grieving to visit the person's final resting place?

If the grieving believe in an afterlife, then really, would this be the best place to visit? Wouldn't that person's spirit rather be somewhere else? My mom wouldn't be anywhere near a cemetary, that's for certain. She'd be somewhere having fun--finding her old friends who left this earth before her, watching her grandchildren and their activities, something, anything but hanging around with a bunch of dead people's graves.

So, I decided I probably will not visit this place again. Makes me wonder why we spent so much on a headstone, but it is an outward sign of our love and appreciation for her. I'm just glad that during her last few years with us she did finally know that we loved her no matter what, and that we were able to give her the happiness she found in her grandchildren.


Wednesday, May 11, 2005

Ten Plans for this Summer

This was supposed to be done yesterday, but I liked it so much when I saw it today, here it is:

1. Weekend trip to San Diego (maybe a three-day non-holiday weekend)
2. re-redo the play room--it's just not working
3. Play & exercise more
4. Weekly Beach visits
5. Have a big casual party with kids and everything
6. Girl Scout campout
7. Sleepover at our house for the whole troup of 2 & 3rd grade girls
8. Paint the living room and the dining room
9. Finish reading the books on my book list
10. Have some picnics with Scott and the girls, and a couple with just Scott

Off to See the Doctor

Today I have an appointment with our primary care physician about my heart troubles. I haven't seen a cardiologist yet, but evidently my troubles aren't too serious, or I would have seen one by now, right?

I don't want this to be big trouble; I do, want it to be a serious wake up call for taking care of my body--getting the extra weight off, moving around more--so that it will take care of me as I age. My hope is that I'll have lost a little tiny bit of weight today at the doc's office.

Going to go get ready now, when all I want to do is take a nice little nap.

Will tell all later.

Sunday, May 08, 2005

May 8, 2005

Well, I think I blew it. My local university informed me by phone that the last day to apply for a Master’s degree in English was the 9th of May. I tried to apply online early this morning (the weeks since the phone call have been a bit busy), and although the database indicated the major and degree were still “open” for application, when I attempted to submit my online application, the system came back with a notice that this degree and major are closed.

I’ve printed both the online application, plus have filled out a hardcopy application to take to them tomorrow and see if it is actually closed totally, or just closed for online applications.

I can still apply to the local community college for my language requirements, which I will most likely do this fall, whether or not I get accepted to the university.

Saturday, May 07, 2005

I Don't Wanna

I don't wanna pay the bills!! I don' wanna!!

But, I'm a mom, a grown-up, and I would very much like to continue living in our house.

So, no real blog today; I must pay the bills.

Friday, May 06, 2005

Does Anyone Want an 8-year Old Girl, Cheap? (Joking, sort of)

I am at my wit’s end. The rope is too frayed to tie a knot. This is Mother’s Day weekend, and yet, I’m nearly ready to give up my eldest for adoption, even though I love her so much it hurts. Maybe that’s why I’m so disappointed. Hurt. Saddened. Angry.

It seems she cannot say anything to me or her sister without shrieking it. The youngest takes her a small toy and asks, “Is this mine, or yours?” The oldest screams, “It’s MINE. PUT IT BACK WHERE YOU FOUND IT!!” I say to her, “I want your room clean before you play with anyone. I allowed it to go untouched this week because you were being tested at school, but now I want you to clean it, please.” She yells, “IT’S MESSY BECAUSE OF EMILY. SHE ALWAYS MESSES IT UP AFTER I CLEAN IT! IT’S NOT MY FAULT!!” She whines and yells (simultaneously—a special talent, I think), “I’M HUNGRY, CAN’T YOU MAKE A SNACK FOR ME??” I told her that because she did not talk to me respectfully, nor has she been nice at all to her sister, that she can make her own snack. She even screamed at the dog. No wonder he wouldn’t come to her.

Yes, she’s had a tough week. Yes, she’s only eight. But don’t I deserve some respect as her mother? Don’t I deserve to have one daughter that actually will do what I ask, especially since I don’t ask too much to begin with? What is too hard about setting the table for dinner? What is too challenging about putting the clean eating utensils away, and the dirty ones in the dishwasher? What’s so awfully bad about putting her own clothes away, after they’ve been washed, dried, and folded or hung?

I’m tired. I don’t want to play this game anymore. I think I’ll do what my three-year old does. I’ll take my toys and go home. Oh, wait. I am home.

What’s a mom to do?

If I Were a Carpenter . . .

I picked this off the East Coast Editor’s and the West Coast Wine Connoisseur: Pick five occupations out of the list below and write your take on each one.

If I could be a scientist... If I could be a farmer... If I could be a musician... If I could be a doctor... If I could be a painter... If I could be a gardener... If I could be a missionary... If I could be a chef... If I could be an architect... If I could be a linguist... If I could be a psychologist... If I could be a librarian... If I could be an athlete... If I could be a lawyer... If I could be an inn-keeper... If I could be a professor... If I could be a writer... If I could be a llama-rider... If I could be a bonnie pirate... If I could be an astronaut... If I could be a world-famous blogger... If I could be a justice on any one court in the world... If I could be married to any current famous political figure...

If I could be a doctor: I would gather my friend Ms. Scientist, plus others with great knowledge, get them their salaries (through grants and donations), and work with them to find a cure for cancer. In the process, we’d find a cure and a prevention for asthma.

If I could be a chef: I would open an affordable “home” where people could stay for up to a month, to learn to create healthy heart-happy, weight-happy meals for themselves that they would really eat. The food would also be such that they could readily obtain it in their local grocery stores. It would be healthy food, no chemicals, no cans, but freezable in case they want to cook for one day and then eat all month. In the process, they could enjoy spa services, tennis, group and solo exercise, and get healthier.

If I could be an architect: I would donate my time and talent to design and build affordable housing that would cost nothing to the residents in poor countries. I would design residential neighborhoods that facilitate neighbors’ coming together and getting to know each other. The houses would have reasonably sized rooms, well-equipped kitchens, not be the huge monoliths we have in southern California now, have decent yards instead of overly-huge living quarters, plus, if the owner decided to add on, the design of the building would facilitate that.

If I could be a linguist: I would create a language that all people could understand. It would combine the most common structures of most languages and be easily learned, so that when translation of one’s native language into another’s is challenging, this new language would help. This would greatly reduce, and maybe even eliminate a “lost in translation” syndrome, plus reduce confusion, and suspicion in political conversations. I would create transitional words and phrases that more accurately express ideas in all languages. It would NOT be English. I would also simplify that language and make it easier to learn.

If I could be an inn-keeper: I would make granola with my Dad’s recipe; I would bake breads, cookies, muffins and learn how to make brioche. I would include breakfast and dinner in the price; the menu for dinner would be a prix fix menu—dinner would be different every evening. I would provide, two weekends per year, a Mom’s getaway weekend, free of charge to working single moms, providing transportation for them. I would have two other weekends per year available to my mom friends so we could have time away, too.

What about if I could be US President??

“I'm now supposed to tag three other bloggers to do this meme, but I prefer to do it this way: If you're reading this, consider yourself tagged!” East Coast Editor wrote. I like her idea, so Tag, you're it!

I think I did it!

Well, with Poppy's supervision and the written instructions, I installed the new toilet. I turned on the water last evening, and it didn't leak while filling, nor did it leak upon flushing!

I think I did it!

If I can do this, I can scrape the ceiling in the girls' room, can't I?

Thursday, May 05, 2005

The Good: Toilet half installed

The Bad: Toilet is only half installed

The Ugly: Toilet is only half installed

Wednesday, May 04, 2005

Wish Me Luck Again, Please

Last night, I knew it was too much to ask to go to sleep early. I actually got into bed and was asleep before 10:pm. Scott called me for help at around 11. He had sort of fallen and broken the tank of our toilet in the girls' bathroom. Water flooded everywhere.

We soaked it all into some old towels; he did most of the soaking, I just re-supplied and kept the hallway carpet from getting more flooded. We knew we were looking at a huge plumber's bill.

The wish me luck part comes from me going to our local hardware warehouse--that orange and beige one--buying a new toilet, and planning to install it myself. I hope I can do it; I have instructions and tools, and yes, the wax ring for the bottom. I have never taken on such a task, but if it saves us a few hundred dollars, and works, too, I'll be very happy. And, we won't have to wait for the plumber to show.

So, wish me luck!

Tuesday, May 03, 2005

I PASSED!!! (5/3/05)

Please satisfy my ego and read the following test results for my CBEST test:

Cumulative Status: Highest Results

Section Highest Score Test Date
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Reading 52 04/09/2005
Math 62 04/09/2005
Writing 63 04/09/2005
Total Score: 177

CBEST Status: PASSED

I don’t know if this is a particularly high score, but I am so glad I did it! I don’t have to re-take it! Now I can be the next Mrs. Peggy Hill! YIPPE!!

Sunday, May 01, 2005

Sunday, April 24th, Good-bye to Paris

The Good: Learning more French than I thought possible

The Bad: I’m not quite ready to leave

The Ugly: the confusion and chaos in attempting to find our gate at the airport. Yikes.

We ate our last French breakfast this morning. We gathered our bags. We walked to the gathering place to wait for our “coaches” to take us to the airport. We loaded the coaches, boarded the coaches and we were then on our way to Charles de Gaulle International Airport where Air France would take us home to Los Angeles. We got to the airport 2-1/2 hours before our flight would leave, giving us much time, to kind of relax, hang out, whatever, before the plane left. So little we knew then.

So by this time, I had informed our “guide” that I’d had my minor heart “event” and she was so very helpful with the girls as well as our bags. It was great. However, we were sent to four, yes four different areas at different ends of the terminal (two terminals) to check-in for our departure. It was some walk! Finally, in some dungeon/basement area, we got to a check-in line and waited. And waited. Finally, we did actually check in, and then we had to trek up to the boarding gate.

We had very little time to wait before Air France officials announced boarding. I had asked if we could pre-board because of having the 3-year old, and the very nice staff member came and got us to pre-board us, plus a few others with small children. It was great boarding a nearly empty plane with all of our things.

Whew! We had done it! Eight days in Paris and no really huge mishaps that couldn’t be handled. We made it onto the plane on time and would be going home soon. Or so we thought.

The plane sat on the tarmac for what seemed forever, but was actually an hour and twenty minutes before we could taxi and get cleared for take-off.

But we did take off. We flew over France, over England, over Greenland and the Arctic Circle, then began the slight descent over Manitoba, then Montana, Colorado, and finally into California airspace.

When we landed, there were a couple of sharp turns, one apparently accommodating for the other, but the plane did settle into a normal taxi’ing pattern, and then the whole back of the plane applauded.

We were back in Los Angeles!! YAY!! Home!! Scott left the three of us with the bags while he got the car from the parking structure. While we waited, we saw a bomb-sniffing dog inspect a huge package that had been left on the sidewalk, and also we saw an accident between a taxi and an SUV. Lots of activity here at the airport!

We got home with all of our bags, both of our children, and the two of us. We were happy to be home, that’s for sure. But we also all loved Paris (and London, too), and all the great touring we got to do.

Even with the mishaps of our French adventure, we still ranked this a 93% successful trip.

So I’m home now, and will return to my regularly programmed boring blah-blah.

There you are hereby updated on my trip to France. Too much info? Too bad. Skim it. Thank you to the four (or maybe five) people who have read this far. Please do comment, email me, let me know who you are in case I want to respond.

Good night!

Bon nuit!

Friday-April 22

It’s happening. I’m thinking in French. I don’t know what the hell I’m thinking, but it’s definitely French.

I got to sleep in a little this morning. We had a lazy breakfast, and a slow walk over to Disney Studios. No matter how much I pouted, stomped my feet and pleaded, the answer was “no!” to my going on the Rockin’ Roller Coaster. I had looked forward to this since we planned our trip, since the same ride in Florida is a favorite of mine. Emily was not quite tall enough to ride it anyway, so she and I walked around, shopped, and waited for Scott and Sarah to finish their joy ride.

My family helped me take it very easy today, and we had a nice, relaxing day. I think that all of us needed it with the busy routine of the past few days. Plus, we need to get up very early again tomorrow, to get to our train to take us to the bus that will take us to the train that will take us to London where we’ll get a bus and tour the city. (Somewhere in there is the house that Jack built.)

A nice relaxed dinner, an immediate decision on my part to reduce my intake of food (so I only ate half of the delicious steak and the rest of my dinner, plus I was talked into getting dessert, but didn’t finish that either), and we walked back to our hotel. We have to pack to leave, since we’ll get back so late from London tomorrow night. So, I have a bunch of stuff packed (the dirty clothes), and have picked out our clothing for tomorrow’s adventure. (Yawn)

Saturday, April 23

Today, again we got up at 4:30; left the hotel at 5:30, got the train at 6:00. Well, not really. We were told the first train left at 6am, but it in fact left at 5:40. So, we waited ‘till 6:15 for the next train. It’s Saturday—it’s not the regular service. Wish we’d known.

The 6:15 came and we got on, and my dear husband stressed the whole trip about whether or not we’d make this bus ride to get to the chunnel. I had let the women at the counter know, when we paid for the trip, that we’d be a few minutes late. So, I wasn’t too worried. We got into the station at 6:55 (the bus is supposed to leave at 7:00), and Scott was shaking, he seemed so nervous that we would not get to the bus company in time.

I knew the way to the company, so when we got off the Metro, I led us to it. There is a story about the failed Thursday expedition, our tour “guide” and going the wrong way to the station, but I’ll tell that another time, maybe. We were there in 7 minutes. The ladies were ready for us; we used the facilities quickly, and they led us to our bus. Whew! I don’t know why I wasn’t stressed about it and Scott was; maybe it was the Alprazolam I took the night before. 8^)

We got to see some more of Paris while on the way to the Eurostar train station. It took about 15 minutes to get to Gare du Nord, the train station to catch the Eurostar. We got on the train, in our luxurious first class accommodations. The girls were starving, so I stopped at a café bar in the station for croissants, cocoa, and coffee for the four of us. Little did I know that a full breakfast would be served en route on the train. We had a smooth train ride and a great breakfast! Lots of carbs to keep us warm! Plus fresh squeezed orange juice! We had a table to read, write, play games, or to fold if we wanted to stretch out and take a little nap.

The train left the station, and began a beautifully scenic path to the English Channel at Calais, through a dark tunnel for 20 minutes, and surfaces at Ashford, England, finishing the route at Waterloo Station in London. How cool! Only 2-1/2 hours from Paris to London and no boat ride, and no flying!

As we waited for others from the original bus ride to gather with our “guide,” a purser from the train approached me and said my gloves had been left on the train. I attempted to re-board the train, but was stopped by security, saying that once off the train, no one was allowed back on due to security and customs. I had to go to Customer Service, alert them, and someone would bring my gloves to me. So I did exactly that. I was not going to leave my expensive Italian leather, cashmere-lined best ever gloves on that train! Within two minutes, they arrived, and I was easily able to catch up with the group. The “guide” told us to be back at the station at 5:30, briefly explained the particular tour bus system we would be taking, and disappeared as if he were boarding Harry Potter’s train.

The four of us took a double-decker bus tour of London, not only because we wanted to look like the typical American tourists with our umbrellas and cameras, but because we wanted Sarah and Emily to see as much of London as they possibly could in one day. Not an easy task, but we were able to get off the bus and back on at any stop we found interesting.

We got to see a lot, including the Millenium Ferris Wheel, a magnificent work, towering higher than nearly any building in the city, the Tower of London, the Tower Bridge, Houses of Parliament, Westminster Abbey, St. Paul’s Cathedral, The Royal Palace, including front and back views, plus the dowager “cottage” that was bigger than anywhere I have ever lived, as well as The Tower of Big Ben. It was very crowded, I suppose because it was the weekend, but we managed to enjoy the city anyway.

At the Tower of London, Scott and Sarah got off the bus, and while Emily and I tried and tried to get round all the people, we could not get off in time. When we finally got down to the driver, and let him know we needed to get off, he graciously stopped at the nearest opportunity, told us where to walk to find the Tower, and off we went. We easily reunited with Scott and Sarah, and all went off together to find lunch.

The girls were ecstatic—they found a Burger King! I found a “tea” complete with scone, tea and a biscuit (cookie) with a piece of fresh fruit and yes, clotted cream. Scott got fish and chips which he really enjoyed. We were all very happy.

Off we went to explore. Yes, we went to the gift shop, and did some quick shopping (Yikes! $2 US to £1!—that’s why the shopping was rather quick).

We walked around the outside of the Tower, and found our way to a boat that took us up and down the Thames River, which was quite a nice and unexpected adventure. I had punted on the Thames in Oxford, but had not been on the Thames in London before. We got a lot of information about the Loft district on the banks of the river, plus great stories of historical nature about some of the locations on the banks. We got off the boat at the Millenium Ferris Wheel, intending to ride on it, but we had 45 minutes to get back to Waterloo, and with the lines to buy tickets plus to get on the Wheel, it would have been more than an hour. We took this as a nice excuse to visit London again, and began our walk to Waterloo Station.

I was quite tired. We got ourselves some dinner-type snacks and boarded our train for the return to Paris. I managed to finish writing the postcards on this train ride as well as get some sleep. I hope to get them mailed so they won’t get to their destinations too much later than we return home.

This day was great! No falls, no slips, no heart attacks, not too much crying/whining, it was great.

We got back to our hotel at about 10:30. We had to finish packing. So, I put everyone to bed so I could pack everything for us and be ready for our flight home the next day.

At about o:dark:thirty, I got to bed, but we were all packed and the travel clothes chosen. I was pretty proud of myself for fitting everything, clothes, souvenirs, shoes, everything into the bags we had brought. We didn’t have to buy a new bag, nor would we have to carry one too much to the plane! Yippee!!

More Ride Descriptions

But first, more descriptions of rides. As I said, Space Mountain was very cool and fast, but bumpy. While Sarah and I went on that, Em and Daddy went on the Autopia ride, where she could reach the pedals and drive! She got pretty excited about that. Sarah and Daddy visited the “Phantom Manor”—Em was not quite tall enough, I didn’t want a baby swap. All four of us got to ride Big Thunder Mountain, and the girls loved it. They screamed at the top of their little lungs for the whole ride! Every time Sarah started, Em had to join her. It was cool going on Star Tours and hearing the narration in French.

Off to Paris!

Tuesday morning, with an itinerary that would challenge a veteran traveler, we planned to visit the Eiffel Tower, the Arc de Triomphe, and the Louvre. First thing, we maneuvered our way through Paris’ Metro, a huge maze of underground transportation, and found the Eiffel Tower. As our train came up from underground, we all saw the Tower looming just to our right. What a beautiful thing! I remember being here before, but it still impressed me at the beauty of its design, the sheer look of it, the kind of comforting way it looks over the whole city.

The girls got very excited when they saw the tower peeking at them from behind the city buildings from their train window.

The location of Tour Eiffel (TE for short) sat a few blocks away from the train stop. We waited in the very long line to ride the elevators, actually funiculars, to the top. S&E both expressed “whoa” and “wow” several times at how tall it is.

We took the yellow lift up to the third level and walked, er rather crawled around the perimeter with the throngs of visitors—the mass of humanity-- waiting for the next lift to take all of us to the top.

What a gorgeous view! The girls were duly impressed with all they could see from this vantage point and we did as all tourists do—walked around and around, took pictures and video, and then, unlike the last time I visited, we rode the lift back down. Unfortunately, we did not get our family’s picture taken there, as I had hoped we would for our Christmas picture. Oh well.

At the bottom, after all the walking, the standing in line, the walking around, the standing in more lines, walking, lines, walking, we felt very tired and hungry, bordering on grumpy. After sitting for a little while, we walked back toward the metro. By this time it was already 3:30 pm, and I wondered about seeing the other items on our list.

It began to rain, and we did what we do best: we found a great bar/brasserie and ate. The servers were great. At first they seemed to want to act like the reputed rude Parisians we’ve heard so much about, but our girls warmed each of them and we got great service, plus delicious food. The rain died down, we were full of great food (I had French Onion soup and tea with some nice bread), so we ventured outside to explore.

I needed a pharmacy (for my sinus issues) and remembered all the green crosses from previous trips to Europe. We found one and went in, but it was like no pharmacy I’ve ever been before! Nothing like Walgreens, that’s for sure! One wall displayed prescription eyeglass frames, and another wall featured “tres chic” cosmetics. After waiting and browsing for a few minutes I definitely knew it was not the type of pharmacy I needed.

While walking around, we found the Hilton of Paris. Of course we called it the Paris Hilton, silly! My husband needed a picture of him in front of it, so we stopped there for a while.

Then we walked in the vague direction of the train stop, browsed through a darling little market, and just a few blocks toward the stop, we found just the pharmacy we wanted.

Funny thing about translations: I had asked a nice young woman to write in French the term “sinus medication.” When she wrote it, I was satisfied that it looked like it said just that. When I asked the pharmacist, and showed her the note, she went straight to the wall and got me some lotion for the bags under my eyes. We got it straightened out that I’d keep my bags, but would like my sinuses to feel better, and she gave me some sinus meds.

So, Tuesday afternoon, after seeing one thing from our list, we rode the train back to our hotel.

Wednesday

Today, we took another train trip to Paris, this time for Notre Dame and whatever else we could manage to see. We would pick the day they announced the new pope, and of course Our Lady was very crowded. Still, we all could not believe the beauty of the architecture and the magnificence of the cathedral along with the grounds surrounding it.

In the front courtyard, a man with the typical beret, dark sunglasses and a cigarette, grabbed Sarah’s hand (kind of worried me for a second), put bread in it and showed her to pinch the bread while holding it upward. Sparrows began to fly to her and ate out of her hand! Can’t wait to see those pictures! She giggled so much, the man gave some more to her, and also gave some to Emily. They both giggled and screamed so much, they nearly became a tourist attraction! It was great fun.

After walking inside, warning the girls it was a place to be respectful, we looked at the magnificent stained glass windows, the nave, the alter, everything. We found a place where candles had been lit, and Sarah and I were both moved to do something out of my nature.

We each lit a candle for our dear friend Karine. We are not Catholic; we know Karine was not Catholic, but we had kept a candle lit for her at home before she died, and it just seemed appropriate to light one for her here, where so many prayers and flames went up into the air for so many people.

We walked around the corner, and voila! There was what I had hoped we’d find: a small kiosk with a crepe maker! I did the ordering; Scott had a “jambon e fromage” (ham and cheese), the girls got a poulet (chicken), and I got a poulet e fromage (chicken and cheese). Then I ordered the nutella crepe for dessert. Nutella is a thick sauce made of hazelnuts and chocolate. YMMMM! I was relieved to find that they were only 2.5 ($3.75 US). Much better than the €9 price I had seen inside Disneyland. Starving and poor students were saved. They could still afford crepes at least.

This was the day that Sarah nearly walked into the street and got hit by a truck. I’m just so glad she turned around to my scream. The truck missed her by just about a foot. I don’t even know if her dad saw it. Just a few hours later, Emily did the same thing! Scott and I both screamed her name, and she was saved, too.

We walked along the Seine, looking at architecture, finding the far away TE, and it was still large, even in the distance. While looking at the river from the bridge, Scott made the comment—“look at those ducks in the river! Their INseine ducks!” So, that was one of our re-occuring jokes throughout the week.

He also loved to ask the girls if French cows said “le moo” and French dogs said “le barque”, and so forth. It was great for laughs on the train.

On the way back to our hotel, Emily got her hand stuck in the door to one of the many train changes we made. Boy, did that hurt! By the time we got to our room, though, she was much better.

Thursday, we left the hotel at 5:15 am. Yes, in the morning. We got up at 4:30 to be ready to meet our group at 5:30 so that we’d make the first train out of Paris to catch the Eurostar (chunnel) to London. After arriving at the place we needed in Paris (to catch the coach to catch the London train), we found that our confirmed reservation had been cancelled because it was not paid by 7:00 the previous evening. Had I known this when we got to the room at 10:30, I wouldn’t have stayed up until 1:30 trying to fax the credit card payment information and might have got a good night’s sleep! Oh well.

We took the opportunity to get a great French breakfast complete with eggs(!), and dark, French coffee. Then we four walked across the street to the beginning of the Jardin de Tuilleries. It was so full of tulips and poppies, the colors nearly overwhelmed us. The girls played, I got to sit and read a book for awhile, and Scott went exploring for an ATM.

The girls loved the play structures in the Jardin. They played for about an hour.

This was the day to go to the Louvre. We walked and walked (my blisters got blisters!), and found the beautiful museum. There are quite a lot of new halls; we visited the Large format European paintings, the Mona Lisa (of course), and some of the statuary. Sarah couldn’t get over how good all the artists were. How she needed a bit of practice to get as good as that.

We got on a train and head for the catacombs. As we headed for the building, crossing the street, I saw my dear husband falling down on the cobblestone. I screamed like I've never screamed before, and ran to him. He had been pushing Emily's stroller, and it went down too. She began to cry. Here's where the infamous French people gave the lie to their reputation. Four men helped Scott off the ground. A very kind woman went into the nearest Brasserie and got ice for Emily's head. She was crying so much--it had scared her more than hurt her. We all calmed ourselves a little, and began to walk on to the catacombs.

We wanted to see the skeletons. When we reached the location, we found that the catacombs will be closed until May 2005. Bummer. But, we found a place for some lunch, a very nice park, and had ourselves a very nice, needed rest for awhile.

It was getting late, and Emily had fallen a few times, so we decided that, even though my dream of dreams in Paris was to visit the muse d’orsay (museum of Impressionist Art), we would return to the hotel. Yawn. We were sure tired!

We had dinner and walked to our room. I felt pretty tired, and lay down on the bed. Suddenly, I felt a fast pounding in my chest and the feeling that a brick was on it. I sat up, moved over to the window, opened it, and called Scott. My heart felt as if it would come strait out of my chest. After about ten minutes of it not settling, I permitted Scott to call the front desk's emergency number. Within 3 minutes, seven paramedics, the hotel manager, and a doctor were in our hotel room giving me a portable ekg,

The ekg read that my heart was up to 227 beats per minute. My blood pressure was 180 over 105. They injected me with something, and after about five more minutes, my heart began to slow. It stabalized at 110 beats per minute, so they all picked me up, put me on a stretcher and took me to their local hospital.

The ER doc there was very kind (so were the nurses!). He saw that I was stable, wanted to run a few more tests, told me to rest as well as I could. He returned after awhile and said he had all the paperwork ready for me to look into the insurance paying for it. I asked him at this point if what happened was due to stress or anxiety. He said, "Non, madame, it was definitely your heart."

He offered for me to stay at the hospital, but felt it would be more comfortable for me to be in the hotel with my family. He was right. I wanted to go back to them soon. He gave me instructions to see a cardiologist on Monday after I return home. So, an ambulance came and got me and left me at our hotel's front desk. The night manager walked me back to my room. I got back at 3:00am, just enough time to get a few hours of sleep before our trip to Disneyland the next day, er, rather, that day.

My eyes right now are closing whether or not I want them to, so I'm going to finish the trip news tomorrow.